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Yes, you may (as many people tend to) get completely wrapped up in your own feelings and give the middle finger to anyone who tries to tell you otherwise, but if one of your besties decided to start humping your ex, would you be supportive or forgiving?The sheer concept of seeing one of my mates with an ex is something that’d affect me for a number of reasons. Unless for some odd reason your bestie is 100 percent OK with it, even considering her ex automatically qualifies you as a bad friend. I love my friends, but sharing the same sex partner as them just doesn't strike me as a turn on. You've heard every terrible thing that they did to your best friend. That goes without saying, but since some seem to forget this, it bears repeating.But hey, you wanted her boyfriend so maybe you'll want her name, too. The chances of successful group dates are highly unlikely and if you want to ever bring your bf to those concerts you always attend....well, think again.Basically, don't be the bitch who dates your best friend's ex. The things that used to annoy you kinda start turning you on.If they do choose to leave, they may feel sad and lonely when it’s over, even though the relationship was abusive.
As a friend, try to be there for them because although they may not show it, they need you more than ever.She loves you and wants you to be happy, but if you ultimately want the same, you won't choose dating her recent ex to be your newest source of happiness.Honestly, it should never have been considered anyway, so do yourself a favor and don't put your friendship at risk.5. Not only are you pissing your best friend off, but your new bf's family has always viewed you as his girlfriend's best friend. Considering they always associated the two of you together, there's a real good chance you're gonna get called your bestie's name. If for some reason your best friend chooses not to defriend you, your social outings are gonna be awkward af from now on.We talked with some friends who have experienced this and shared their insights with us. Is the boyfriend or girlfriend a bad influence on your friend? Do you think your friend’s date is a bad influence?If someone has a different set of values, or lifestyle choices, you may think your friend is doing harm to mind, body, or spirit.
Often it’s hard to tell the two apart, especially if you’ve not been in a relationship or hooked up with anyone in a while.