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It only becomes illegal when the relationship gets physical. with less comfort, less time, more alcohol, and less precautions.
I would say that 18 and 21 is a pretty acceptable age gap, its not like its 14 and 56 (ref Bill Wyman)! The 21 year old will probably be more experienced and will be hoping for a more advanced relationship than the 18 year old is ready for.
Wondering whether or not other people agree with you that it's wrong is utterly pointless, because the bottom line is that it isn't for you or anyone else to judge what they do in their own lives. I agree is they are legal consenting age it really shouldn't matter.
My God, if pontificating about the love lives of other people is the best we can do with our free time, then it's no damn wonder our country and the world is in the sorry state it is currently in.It may not be desirable for a 21 year old to date a 9 year old but it is not actually illegal!!!! Just remember that if you prohibit things, they simply do them behind your backs... Thats actually one the best ages to date in my opinion!!It only becomes illegal when the relationship gets physical. with less comfort, less time, more alcohol, and less precautions. WHen i was 16 i dated a 21 year old...kinda dumb but fortionatlly he didnt try anything and he was a good first!!There was something especially cool about being friends with them. "I don't want you hanging around with someone that much older than you.""Mom." I'm sure I rolled my eyes. ""So, no normal 20 year old wants to hang out with someone who is 15. Stay away from him."This was the sort of thing that always led to my leaving the room in a teary huff, maintaining loudly that she Just Didn't Understand. One Saturday, the guys planned a picnic in a nearby forest park. We had gotten in the habit of him driving me home, and my suddenly wanting to make different arrangements seemed to inconvenience everyone.We were still at an age where our parents insisted on treating us like children. Once again, she was treating me like a child, someone unable to make her own decisions. It didn't seem like such a big deal, as my best friend was doing nothing sneaking around to be with her boyfriend. Suddenly, I wasn't that scared, invisible girl anymore, watching from the sidelines. I remember it was a gorgeous fall day, crisp and cool, and the first time I'd had Brie cheese and red wine. Even worse, I couldn't say why I didn't want to go with him.
I just feel jn todays society when a man of this age will not even consider a woman his age and focusen in young girls is not right maybe Im wrong but I am a mother and Id be very upset if my 18 year old came in with a man my age. However there is a 15 year age gap between me and my husband.